Well, Brown's nephew was born on my birthday around 7, 8 in the evening, so that is why he missed my birthday, or so he says. He got so excited that he dropped his phone in water and had to wait to get a replacement. Some of this makes logical sense, and some of it doesn't. So I have to decide whether or not I'm buying it. I guess I am letting him think that I am but come on! I could let this cloud our relationship but I won't. I'll just tuck this away with the other memories of times that he has ignored/forgotten/hurt me. One day, I'll have my say but I don't feel that day is here yet. And on that note, I started on the pill again. I just don't want a kid right now and neither does he. I am too angry (among other things) to want that in my life, and heaven knows it wouldn't be fair to the kid. I did ask him what would he want to do IF we accidentally got pregnant and he was all like "Is there something you want to tell me?!?" I told him no of course, but you know I didn't tell him that I hadn't been on the pill for 2 1/2 months. He said that back in the day, he might have been ok but now with things as raggedy for us as they are, he wasn't too sure about things. But I know I couldn't have an abortion, regardless of how sad my life is. An abortion would make my present AND future sad, but if I had the kid, I would at LEAST have the option of having hope in the future for my child. But now that I'm on the pill again, we wont ever have to make that decision. We'll have kids in six years. Now the question I want to have is when will we get married....
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